YOU ARE YOU 🗯️

Your worth is not measured by likes and followers, or by whether they do or do not reply you back. By your job title and productivity. 

You are so much more than numbers, titles on a piece of paper. More than target and reaching impossible goals. You are the compassion and kindness that lives in your bones. The love you give out and the love you show yourself. You are the memories that you make for yourself and others. You are the knowledge that your bad days do not define your soul. And life will keep on moving whatever is thrown at you. YOU ARE YOU. There is no measure for a delightful thing like YOU. 

You should be able to think about yourself to make the decision which is best for you. No matter how scared the idea be to accept it or not. There should be no misunderstanding about this that putting your interests first to a sensible degree is most important thing you can do if you care about your happiness and the happiness of those who are around you.

Nobody in this world is perfect. You should learn to accept yourself as you are, and hold your head on high, if you have ever felt infuriated or manipulated by other people, then challenge yourself to stand up and promise yourself to work so hard and become so successful that no one would ever dare to speak anything against you.

Thank you, 

Tersina Maria Toppo. 

THE SOCIETY 🗯️

"Everything Defined In This Article Is In Support For The Mentally Disabled, Physically Disabled, Weak In Studies etc" 

There are so many children who are weak in studies, physically disabled, etc. But they are not useless, they have got tons of talents. But the so called SOCIETY has made such an impact on those kids that, everyone look at them as if they are lacking of something... But NO, they are more creative than other kids out there. Yes those kids might not be like other children ( normal mental health, physical health,). 

But what's wrong with the people out there. Whenever a Mentally disabled child passes by, the so called SOCIETY looks at them as if an Alien is passing by. Aren't they human?, aren't they kids?

If the parents of the specific child has no problems in upbringing their child then what problem does the SOCIETY has? Yes those children's mental capacity might be weak but on the other hand they are so creative. All they need is Time, Attention, Love, Care, and above all Respect. They are also human. Please stop looking them as Aliens. They are scared. They are thousands times better then the mentally and physically able people. Don't be heartless, be kind towards the weak and needy. Help them out, be their friends. Their are so much to learn from them. I repeat stop being self- aggrandizement. 

• IF HE CAN, WHY CAN'T YOU? 

To the parents out there, if your son/daughter is weak in studies, don't compare them with other children. Scold him/her as much as you can but never COMPARE. Be their friend, ask him/her if they have any problems. Council them. Find out their hidden talent. 

The ritual of  "IF HE CAN, WHY CAN'T YOU?"  has been passed on from our four fathers. And it will be carried out to many more further generations. From the day a BABY is born, the comparison of PERFECTION starts. And it continues till the last breath of her/his Life. 

     

There are billion of people who give up their life because of such question nd because of the RACE OF PERFECTION.  Due to mental pressure of school grades, physical health, skin colour etc can distroy One's mind. There is nothing bad in trying or learning something from one another. But a person must never be forced to do something which he/she isn't capable of. If that person has the potential to compete  with another person then he/she will surely give his 100% to win it. But if you force someone to do something against his/her will then, he/she might do it but with the fear in their mind and soul.. Which can lead to the distractions of their self confidence nd self ability. 

• NEVER DO IT. 

A child must never be compared with another child. As it affects their mental health as well as physical health . Before comparing a any child with another child, find out what he/she is capable of. Every child are not born to bring good grades, have healthy body, etc. Everyone are gifted with a hidden talent. It is very common in Indian families where a child is always compared with neighbour's children, cousins etc. 

 It is just because of the SOCIETY. Parents are afraid that if their children will not get good grades or wear full coverd cloths then the society will make fun of them. 

Yes, SOCIETY plays a very crucial role but on the other hand it also becomes the speedbreaker of life. It is not necessary to blame SOCIETY but sometime it affects people in such 

a way that people loose their own life. I'm not against the society. 

Yes, there are some people who does unwanted stuffs which harms the surrounding (using drugs, wearing scandalous outfits, using slug in the public, etc). In that case strike action should be taken. 

Before doing anything we always wonder about WHAT THE SOCIETY WILL THINK. Whenever we fail in exam, if we are gay, lesbian, etc. Even if a old person wants to join college, they think what the society will think.

Just wanna say one think that until nd unless you are right and have no guilty, we have nothing to be afraid of the society. 

Just remember that if you have a guilty inside of you nd you are fake then or wanted to cause any harm to your surroundings then no one on the earth can be by your side to support you. 

So we must always do something through which our parents can proudly say that "Yes That's My Son/Daughters" 

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo