Teen Lovies 🗯️

Falling in love as a teenager is really amazing. It teaches many lessons. But 85% of the teenagers stay in relationship just to adjust with the peer or to showoff. But the one who stay together till the end are worth of thousand diamonds. I sit back and observe every person in my life. I'm not the kind of person who love having daily conversations but i do care about every single person in my life including the rats and lizards of my home. I know who motivates me and who keeps the friendship real. I know who talk about me and smile at my face. I know who I can trust and who I need to keep a distance with. Just because I let you be the way you are to me, don't think it's as if I'm unaware of what really goes on. 

Here's the truth, Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man, being loyal doesn't keep a man either. My Mom taught me something about relationships, she told me to never be the one to love the other person more. I always thought that was odd. That was until I saw my Dad treating my Mom wrong Because He always knew she will always be her side no matter what, because she loved and respected my Dad more. That's why when I started to fall I catch myself up. I don't want to be the one to love more  because I've seen what that does to people. 

One day that all gonna pass away, you can waste your time focusing on all the bad things. But one day you are going to wish you were still a teenager, not to enjoy being teenagers again but to correct the mistakes you have done as a teen.... Regret the rude stuffs you have said to your parents and family members to enjoy your life, regret wasting time on the things you shouldn't have done, regret for not being obedient and faking yourself on social media etc.

On the street of Teen we meet many new stuffs, we learn, we cheat, we lie, we criticize, we fight over stupid things, shits happens. We fall in love and end up getting hurt, not all, some High-school love stories really inspire us to fall love. We hate people for no reason, hang out with friends etc... Putting makeup makes you prettier than being you actually are in real. It's the time period when we don't want anyone to control our life by anyone. Being in relationship with a man is more important that being in true love with someone. 

It's okay to make mistakes and being rude... It is the age itself of being mean and living life in you own way and making most of it. But during those time period did you ever realised how much you must have hurt you parents by tell the stuffs you should have told.

Someone once said, "Life Is A Beautiful Lie". And I felt that. 

Thank You
Tersina Maria Toppo 

A Family With "COMPROMISE" Is Not A Family! 🗯️

 A Family With "COMPROMISE" is not a family. A family with "COMPROMISE" can be defined as a bunch of people living together in a house along with the tag COMPROMISE.

Behind every good relationship are the difficult and uncomfortable conversations we rarely get to hear or see. Great relationships doesn't just fall into our laps. They require people to move through their fears and insecurities and do the hard work to move wounds into healing. Not having a good relationship with the family itself is the root of unhappy life. Happy are those

Its sad when a family doesn't share their feelings, sadness, and happiness, with each other. The day will come when we have to regret it. And the day is called the FUNERAL.

Many parents wonder why their kids aren't honest with them, and never realise their own non-respective behaviour and failure to listen are the reason why.

Kids just don't become liers, rude, disrespectful because of their peers. One of the most core factor is "THE COLLISION BETWEEN FAMILYs".

Shoutout to the people who grew up with emotionally unsupportive parents (the collision between parents) and have to hear from other people's talk about how supportive their families are while you're basically guiding yourself through life. You are strong and brave.

Invisible abuse is worse than physical abuse. The harm that you get in your heart and mind are impossible to vanish completely. The invisible harm will always leave a scar which is never cured. If you wish your parents had hit you and left marks on you that means they have already hurt you worse than that and you only wish. If they put you on a situation where you wish you have been physically harmed, it means you are already tortured beyond that.

Thank you

~Tersina Maria Toppo