TIME ESCAPE 🗯️

You are young only for Once. No one remembers the night they got plenty of sleep. Go out and do something fun. I know future plays a very crucial role in curving our lives but how can you mold your future if you don't care about your present. "Don't kill your NOW to mold Your THEN". You can never bring back your past, regret or react. You cannot be a toddler once you become a teenager, you cannot become a teenager once you become an adult. My Mom says "It will Be Too Late Once We Realise The Value Of Something", I felt that. Although the perfect moment might never come but at least you will live the life to the fullest, enjoying each second. You'll just get old and keep wishing you had participated in more school programs, wishing you had talked to the cute guy/girl, wishing you had told your parents about how much you love and care for them. At the end of the day, it is not about how much famous you were, how much you earned, how many people talked shits about you, how many followers you gained. Life is all about the memories you made and the love you had for the people you made them with. This isn't another motivation post but at least this is a chance for you right now to make a true lasting impact in your life. To live a better life. Chase your dreams. Make memories. And most importantly, spend your time with the people you love the most. 

Once a Great Man Said "Something Is Better Than Nothing". But from my prospective, I think that being alone and enjoying your own company is better than being around fake people who will one day leave you and never turn back. It really sucks watching some people faking their relationship with others for whom they don't even care for. They are together just for the sake of popularity and power. Be someone who can wash the face among the public yet look Beautiful and Glowing, don't become a person who wash off their make-up once the day ends. Hey! Enjoy with the company of 3 or 4, trust me that will give you so much strength and you will get more positivity beneath yourself. Isn't it so rare to see someone living his/her life in their original habitat. Like wearing whatever they like, behaving the way they originally are, spending time with family specially with parents and siblings. We are so lost in our imaginary artificial life that we even forget that we gonna die one day appreciating the fake life. We are in a place where celebrating birthdays with friends are more important than thanking parents for giving us a gift of life, we ask our parents gifts on our birthday (although they gave us the greatest gift of all that is the gift of life) instead it's our responsibility to celebrate the day with them rather than with friends, being alone is regarded as less popular and being in a crowd of fake people (peers) seem popular, putting makeup makes someone look so beautiful than staying in original skin tone, branded clothing seems fashionable than wearing salwar.

When we were kids we couldn't wait to grow up and be a free bird. But we aren't free. When we were kids we would beg our parents to stay up late because we hated going to sleep and see us now hunting for time to get at least 10 minutes of sleep. We used to think that our friends would stay with us forever and would never leave each other and look at us now we don't even talk with each other anymore. Life is a limited edition. Everything we have in our life is limited. So make the correct use of every second and make the most delightful memories with the people who are really gonna be by your side though the good and bad times not with the one who believe in faking more than accepting the reality. We are in a stage where future becomes more important than the present. Who can guarantee that you will wake up again after sleeping last night. You never know what's coming in each second of your life so appreciate the present more than worrying about your future. 

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo 

Teen Lovies 🗯️

Falling in love as a teenager is really amazing. It teaches many lessons. But 85% of the teenagers stay in relationship just to adjust with the peer or to showoff. But the one who stay together till the end are worth of thousand diamonds. I sit back and observe every person in my life. I'm not the kind of person who love having daily conversations but i do care about every single person in my life including the rats and lizards of my home. I know who motivates me and who keeps the friendship real. I know who talk about me and smile at my face. I know who I can trust and who I need to keep a distance with. Just because I let you be the way you are to me, don't think it's as if I'm unaware of what really goes on. 

Here's the truth, Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man, being loyal doesn't keep a man either. My Mom taught me something about relationships, she told me to never be the one to love the other person more. I always thought that was odd. That was until I saw my Dad treating my Mom wrong Because He always knew she will always be her side no matter what, because she loved and respected my Dad more. That's why when I started to fall I catch myself up. I don't want to be the one to love more  because I've seen what that does to people. 

One day that all gonna pass away, you can waste your time focusing on all the bad things. But one day you are going to wish you were still a teenager, not to enjoy being teenagers again but to correct the mistakes you have done as a teen.... Regret the rude stuffs you have said to your parents and family members to enjoy your life, regret wasting time on the things you shouldn't have done, regret for not being obedient and faking yourself on social media etc.

On the street of Teen we meet many new stuffs, we learn, we cheat, we lie, we criticize, we fight over stupid things, shits happens. We fall in love and end up getting hurt, not all, some High-school love stories really inspire us to fall love. We hate people for no reason, hang out with friends etc... Putting makeup makes you prettier than being you actually are in real. It's the time period when we don't want anyone to control our life by anyone. Being in relationship with a man is more important that being in true love with someone. 

It's okay to make mistakes and being rude... It is the age itself of being mean and living life in you own way and making most of it. But during those time period did you ever realised how much you must have hurt you parents by tell the stuffs you should have told.

Someone once said, "Life Is A Beautiful Lie". And I felt that. 

Thank You
Tersina Maria Toppo 

A Family With "COMPROMISE" Is Not A Family! 🗯️

 A Family With "COMPROMISE" is not a family. A family with "COMPROMISE" can be defined as a bunch of people living together in a house along with the tag COMPROMISE.

Behind every good relationship are the difficult and uncomfortable conversations we rarely get to hear or see. Great relationships doesn't just fall into our laps. They require people to move through their fears and insecurities and do the hard work to move wounds into healing. Not having a good relationship with the family itself is the root of unhappy life. Happy are those

Its sad when a family doesn't share their feelings, sadness, and happiness, with each other. The day will come when we have to regret it. And the day is called the FUNERAL.

Many parents wonder why their kids aren't honest with them, and never realise their own non-respective behaviour and failure to listen are the reason why.

Kids just don't become liers, rude, disrespectful because of their peers. One of the most core factor is "THE COLLISION BETWEEN FAMILYs".

Shoutout to the people who grew up with emotionally unsupportive parents (the collision between parents) and have to hear from other people's talk about how supportive their families are while you're basically guiding yourself through life. You are strong and brave.

Invisible abuse is worse than physical abuse. The harm that you get in your heart and mind are impossible to vanish completely. The invisible harm will always leave a scar which is never cured. If you wish your parents had hit you and left marks on you that means they have already hurt you worse than that and you only wish. If they put you on a situation where you wish you have been physically harmed, it means you are already tortured beyond that.

Thank you

~Tersina Maria Toppo

Struggling 🗯️

 Somewhere Along The Path,                                  You Will Struggle. 

 It May Be Small,                                                       But It May Also Be Devastating. 

Remember,                                                               You Are Not Alone On Your Struggle . 

You Can Be Happy, Successful, And Thriving In All Aspects Of Your Life.

 

And Still Struggle, 
Struggling Is The Part Of Everyone's Path,
But The Seasons Of Your Life Will Soon Be Pass.  

This Time Of Your Life Will Just Be A Moment In The Past.
Never Forget The Strength Behind Your Struggle.

Thank You,                                                  Tersina Maria Toppo 

BEAUTY 🗯️

I love people who have a sense of individuality, expression and anything awkward and imperfect, because that's natural and real in us.

Show yourself and do not pretend otherwise. I think it's beautiful the way you sparkle when you talk about the things you love no matter how silly the topic might be. And I love it when people discriminate, when they open up and dare to be completely honest, and laugh at the smallest silly things, cry on little things etc. You are the perfect person when you are yourself.

I'm here appreciating each and every moment. All I can do is look around, look into eyes, seeing smiling appearance on faces, feeling the emotional moments, celebrating happiness as well as sadness. And in that moment there is warm, familiar energy that you do not want to say goodbye to. I'm grateful for everything I have, for that beautiful moments, the moments that can be the last you never know.

Beauty is the way you hold yourself, it's how you treat people. The way you love, the self acceptance. Beauty Is Your Soul.

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo 

Cheers For A Change 🥂

We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more from Imagination than from reality. We grow by falling and getting up again. Every time we fall, we stand up to uphold our honor, we stand up to prove ourselves, we stand up because we can not do otherwise. It is expected of us.

But what happens when we fall, so deep that honor plays no part. When our emotions take over and there is nothing to prove. The only consolation can be that little bit of hope, hope to continue, hope for a fair chance, hope for fair outcome. Hope people will see how we interact with each other, how we leave each other behind.

Be the one who nurtures and builds. Be the one who has understanding and forgiving heart. One who looks for the best in people. Leave people better than you found them...  

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo 

BE PATIENT 🗯️

Not everything you lose is technically a loss. More than often its a blessing in disguise. Its upto us to change our attitude and prospective of things in order to see the situation for what its really worth. Sometimes we have to step outside our heart and focus on the true meaning of it all. Sometimes we rush people into things and sometimes we ourself put into situations we aren't 100% sure of or ready for. 

Give people time and space. Don't Beg anyone to stay. Let them roam. What's meant for you will always be yours. In the mean time work for yourself, figure out what potential you have within you. You should know that you are not the kind of person who deserve to be put on layaway. You are not the kind of person who deserve to wait. You are not the kind of person who commit just to be left abandoned. Close door behind you, Open the door which is in front of you. Something better will come knocking sooner than late. BE PATIENT. 

It took me some time to see that not everyone will stay. But not everyone is supposed to. And it's not always because of you. It's more than often - because of them. It's okay because not everyone is meant for you. When we involve ourselves with people, its inevitable to risk our heart, knowing there's a possibility that it may get broken or misused.

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo. 

SKINNY OR BOOBS 🗯️

Being Skinny Isn't A Curse... We Don’t Choose To Be Skinny By Our Own Choice...Yes we have got No Big Boobs, No Big Ass... But we have got a strong mentally to be satisfied of our parents creation nomatter how skinny or chubby we are... 

I'm A Normal Teenager... But on the other hand I'm not NORMAL to the society. Specially in preference for the ladies being skinny is a CURSE.

No matter how many times i meet those people, it is mandatory for them to ask - >  "why are you becoming so thin"... Like Bitch u see me evey single day, why the hell is it so fucking important to ask me the same question every single time we meet...

It was a normal evening, hanging out with some of my friends, nd all of a sudden of my friend pulls my shirt just to see if i wear a BRA or not. We weren't alone, we were surrounded by many people and i don't know how many might have recognised that... For that person it might just for fun. But for me as usually I faked a smiled, came home nd cried.  

People usually don't have problems with skinny people (specially for ladies) it is mandatory to ask us such questions because we don't have bigger BOOBS and Bigger ASS... Thousands of people workout, goes to gym, does plastic surgeries, takes numerous pills, etc just to get slim body...

Yes we have got No Big Boobs, No Big Ass... But we have got a strong mentally to be satisfied of our parents creation nomatter how skinny or chubby we are...

Our Body and our lives are beautiful gift from God nd Parents... They made use with pure love nd blessings. You can't judge someone by their appearance...

Stop Criticising Women with SMALL BREAST... Its Not Funny ✋.

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo 

STOP WASTING ✋

We Are Waiting For Tomorrow,

But Tomorrow Never Comes, 

Our Last Breath Is Right Upon Our Heels, 

Yet We Still Refuse To Run, 

86 400 Seconds, 

And We Are In Another Day, 

All Slipping Through Our Fingers, 

As We Look For Other Way, 

Days, Weeks, Months And Years, 

Are Made Up For Right Now, 

A String Of Fleeting Moments, 

That We Never Pin Down, 

We Gaze Into The Future, 

As Though It's Where We're Meant To Be, 

Always Planing For The That Day, 

When We Can Say That We Are Happy, 

We Spend So Long Looking Forward, 

That We May As Well Be Blind, 

Since We Don’t See Until The Very End, 

All The Time We Have Wasted Behind,

Now I Know It's Just A Theory, 

But I Think I've Worked Out How,

The Only Way To Happiness, 

Is To Love We Have Now. 

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo 

WHO YOU ARE? 🗯️

You Are Not Your Age, 

Nor The Size Of Cloths You Wear,

You Are Not A Weight, 

Or The Colour Of Your Hair,

You Are Not Your Name, 

Or The Dimple Of Your Cheeks,

You Are All The Books That You Read, 

And All The Words You Speak,

You Are Your Croaky Morning Voice, 

And The Smile You Try To Hide,

You Are The Sweetness In Your Laughter, 

And Every Tears You Have Cried,

You Are The Song You Sing So Loudly, 

When You Know You Are All Alone, 

You Are The Places You Have Been To, 

And The One You Call Home, 

You Are The Thing You Believe In, 

And The People You Love,

You Are The Photo In The Bedroom, 

And The Future You Dream Of,

You Are Made So Beautiful, 

But It Seems You Forgot,

When You Decided That You Were Defined, 

By All The Things You Are Not. 

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo 

EXPECTATIONS 🗯️

The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, and we get disappointed everytime we expect something from someone. We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others. When you start to realise that everyone is living in a different stage, thinking differently and making their own choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart. When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself. 

Be the person you can be proud of. Be an example, show respect and understanding. Other may not change, but know that it is all up to you and be proud of how you are. 

Just always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who are you will always be remembered. Pain is invisible and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.

You have got so much soul to be handled by someone who have never been passionate.

Thank You 

Tersina Maria Toppo